Day 215 (Two-Hundred & Fifteen) of 365 days
We all want to be our best, but many people wonder if it’s actually possible to become a better person once you’re an adult. The answer is a resounding yes. There are always ways to improve yourself. While some people give excuses saying that’s who they are. You can’t keep hurting others with who you think you are. You need to change and become a better person.
We’ve all made mistakes throughout our lives that haven’t exactly put us in the best light — like bullying someone in school or telling what seemed like a little white lie. Chances are, however, you probably felt a little guilt and grew because of the situation. I’m an average person trying to become better in both my work and home life. I’ll never be perfect, but it doesn’t mean I won’t try.
Most of us blame others for our mistakes. Blaming your spouse, boss, or clients is fruitless and won’t get you very far. Instead of pointing fingers and making excuses about why you aren’t happy or successful in your personal or professional life, own your mistakes and learn from them. When you do this, you will become a better person. When I personally started living up to my mistakes and downfalls, my life turned around. I became happier and healthier, and my relationships improved.
How would you feel if a loved one or business partner lied to you? Chances are you would see that as a violation of your trust. If you want to be a better person in either your personal or professional life, you should always tell the truth and state as clearly as possible what you are trying to convey. Learn to articulate your thoughts, feelings, and ideas in an open and honest manner.
Listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do. I got to meet some of the most amazing people, and develop connections that will last me a lifetime all because I took time to listen to people. Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner.
How would you feel if you had just cleaned your home and someone came in and tracked mud everywhere? You’d probably be a little ticked that they hadn’t taken off their shoes. Take this mentality and apply it to everyday life. For example, don’t toss your trash or cigarette butts on the floor of public restrooms or sidewalks just because someone else will clean it up. Be respectful of others’ time, thoughts, ideas, lifestyles, feelings, work, and everything else. You don’t have to agree with any of it, but people have a right to their opinions and yours is not necessarily correct.
Becoming a better person doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible. Believe in yourself and know that it is possible! Never buy the idea of that’s the way I am, you’ll never improve!
